the problem of gender identity is our evasion of the implications of power and our may-I-say-“feminine” inclinations to make nice. War is not nice. - June Jordan

... momma
help me
turn the face of history
to your face.
- Getting Down To Get Over - Dedicated To My Mother

And when these concepts of race and class and gender absolutely collapse is whenever you try to use them as automatic concepts of connection.

I am not wrong: Wrong is not my name
My name is my own my own my own
and I can't tell you who the hell set things up like this
but I can tell you that from now on my resistance
my simple and daily and nightly self-determination
may very well cost you your life