Men are the Rosie-the-Riveters of parenting: They’re brought in only when needed, and considered disposable thereafter. - Warren Farrell

Raising children was not designed for single parents. (Which is why divorce was such a taboo prior to birth control.)

While we call role models 'leaders', most 'leaders' are really followers. Most 'leaders' follow their bribes. And we are the people who offer the bribes. We in essence give men two bribes to risk their lives: pay and praise... A man who self-selects for a death profession expects his body to be used in exchange for pay. The unspoken motto of the death professions is 'My body, not my choice.'

After a divorce, men’s biggest fear is, typically, losing their children (women’s is poverty).