Soon I’ll grow up, and I won’t even flinch at your name. - Alanis Morissette

There is no difference in what we're doing in here
That doesn't show up as bigger symptoms out there.
So why spend all our time in dressing our bandages
When we've the ultimate key to the cause right here?
Our underneath.

Do you derive joy when someone else succeeds?
Do you not play dirty when engaged in competition?
Do you have a big intellectual capacity,
But know that it alone does not equate to wisdom?
Do you see everything as an illusion,
But enjoy it even though you are not of it?
Are you both masculine and feminine, politically aware, and don't believe in capital punishment? These are 21 things that I want in a lover,
Not necessarily needs but qualities that I prefer.

I am what I am Are you what you are or What?