The complicated thing about friends is that sometimes they are totally wrong about us and sometimes they are totally right and it’s almost always onl… - Cheryl Strayed

There are known knowns. There are things we know we know. We also know there are known unknowns. That is to say, we know there are some things we do not know. But there are also unknown unknowns, the ones we don’t know we don’t know.

Trust yourself. It’s Sugar’s golden rule. Trusting yourself means living out what you already know to be true.

We all love X but want to fuck Z. Z is so gleaming, so crystalline, so unlikely to bitch at you for neglecting to take out the recycling. Nobody has to haggle with Z. Z doesn’t wear a watch. Z is like a motorcycle with no one on it. Beautiful. Going nowhere.