We are not to be so concerned about who approves or disapproves of us, but remember that God’s approval is what counts. Those whom God approves are a… - Myles Munroe

When two elements are fused into one they become inseparable. A force of sufficient magnitude may destroy them, but it can never disjoin them. A man and a woman who have become “one flesh” under God’s design for marriage cannot be separated without suffering great damage or even destruction. It would be the spiritual equivalent of having an arm or a leg torn from their bodies.

If you keep people down so they dont become better than you, you gotta stay there to keep them down so you dont progress yourself.
What kind of wahala (Suffering) is that ?
Leave them to progress so you can expand.

Being open to correction means making ourselves vulnerable, and many people are not willing to do that.