I've been abused. I was still very young and my younger sister and I were abused. It was more of physical abuse and I know with my sister, it was mor… - Nelisiwe Sibiya

You have to be determined to get out but that's also hard, because the abuse kills your willpower and sometimes you don't want to fight any more. It took me forever to get to a place where I could trust a man enough to date him because of everything I went through

I'd have to go and sleep in the bathroom before I'd start working. That happened for six months and no-one knew. There was another woman who used to work in the bathrooms who eventually started leaving a blanket for me

I chose a long time ago that I will not post anything that will make others feel less than who they are, because social media plays a huge role in people's lives