People can't live with change if there's not a changeless core inside them. - Stephen Covey

Proactive people make love a verb. Love is something you do: the sacrifices you make, the giving of self, like a mother bringing a newborn into the world... Love is a value that is actualized through loving actions. Proactive people subordinate feeling to values. Love, the feeling, can be recaptured.

Independent people who do not have the maturity to think and actinterdependently may be good individual producers, but they won't be good leaders or team players

When air is charged with emotions, an attempt to teach is often perceived as a form of judgment and rejection.