Prolong not the past Invite not the future Do not alter your innate wakefulness Fear not appearances There in nothing more than this - Ram Dass

It is only when you begin to understand that if you and I are truly in love, if I go to the place in me that is love and you to the place in you that is love we are ‘together’ in Love. We start to understand that what love means is that we are sharing a common state together. That state exists in you and it exists in me.

The most important aspect of love is not in giving or the receiving: it's in the being. When I need love from others, or need to give love to others, I'm caught in an unstable situation. Being in love, rather than giving or taking love, is the only thing that provides stability. Being in love means seeing the Beloved all around me.

We have what we seek. It is there all the time, and if we give it time it will make itself known to us. — Thomas Merton