Can emotional love be reborn in a marriage? You bet. The key is to learn the primary love language of your spouse and choose to speak it. - Gary Chapman

..there is hope. That's the marvelous thing about being human. We can change our future. We need not be enslaved by the experiences of the past. We can learn to love even when we have not received love.

Our most basic emotional need is not to fall in love but to be genuinely loved by another, to know a love that grows out of reason and choice, not instinct. I need to be loved by someone who chooses to love me, who sees in me something worth loving.

Genuine service demands that we speak the truth in love. We do not serve each other by avoiding one another’s weaknesses.