"Would you not be happier if you tried to forget her severity, together with the passionate emotions it excited? Life appears to me too short to be s… - Charlotte Brontë

Life appears to me too short to be spent in nursing animosity or registering wrongs.

I could not help it: the restlessness was in my nature; it agitated me to pain sometimes.

"Rochester talking to Jane:
I see no enemy to a fortunate issue but in the brow; and that brow professes to say, — 'I can live alone, if self-respect and circumstances require me so to do. I need not sell my soul to buy bliss. I have an inward treasure, born with me, which can keep me alive if all extraneous delights should be withheld; or offered only at a price I cannot afford to give.' The forehead declares, 'Reason sits firm and holds the reins, and she will not let the feelings burst away and hurry her to wild chasms. The passions may rage furiously, like true heathens, as they are; and the desires may imagine all sorts of vain things: but judgment shall still have the last word in every argument, and the casting vote in every decision. Strong wind, earthquake-shock, and fire may pass by: but I shall follow the guiding of that still small voice which interprets the dictates of conscience'"

And what is hell? Can you tell me that?”
“A pit full of fire.”
“And should you like to fall into that pit, and to be burning there for ever?”
“No, sir.”
“What must you do to avoid it?”
I deliberated a moment; my answer, when it did come, was objectionable: “I must keep in good health, and not die.