Glennon, you refer to God as "she" — why do you believe that God's a female? I don't. I think it's ridiculous to think of God as anything that could … - Glennon Doyle

He was brave enough to be honest; you be brave enough to handle it. Life is hard; friends need to be safe places for each other.

What we need right now is more women who have detoxed themselves so completely from the world's expectations that they are full of nothing but themselves. What we need are women who are full of themselves. A woman who is full of herself knows and trusts herself enough to say and do what must be done. She lets the rest burn.

We feel like we are always saying the wrong things and that people are always getting upset about that. But I do not think people become upset just because we say the wrong things. I think people are upset - and we are defensive, hurt, and frustrated - because we have fallen into the trap of believing that becoming racially sober is about saying the right thing instead of becoming the right thing; that showing up is based in performing instead of transforming.