Some of life's best lessons are learned at the worst times. - Ani DiFranco

and god help you if you are an ugly girl course too pretty is also your doom cause everyone harbors a secret hatred for the prettiest girl in the room and god help you if you are a pheonix and you dare to rise up from the ash a thousand eyes will smolder with jealousy while you are just flying back

and I try
to draw the line
but it ends up running down the middle of me
most of the time.

I still define myself by the places that I've been.