What will be will be.No one can escape fate's design. - Christopher Paolini

The hardest lesson in life is learning to accept that there are some things we can’t change.” Falconi paused, his eyes hard and glittering. “Blaming yourself is perfectly normal, but it doesn’t do you any good. Until you stop, unless you can stop, you’ll never be able to fully recover.

He'd lost all fear of Death's embrace,
The last embrace a man will know.

Better to see widely than to see too closely and allow some feature of place or situation to catch you unawares. Do you understand?