They think the privateer’s life one of nothing but adventure, violence, evasion, and escape. But, between letters of marque, bills of lading, rosters… - David D. Levine

Poor behavior reflects will upon one’s family and upon one’s station in life. Without family and station, one lacks influence. And without influence, little of consequence can be accomplished.

You are a most vexing young woman, you know." But his face bore a slight, whimsical smile.
"I know," she replied, feeling her own mouth curve into a matching expression.
He blew out a breath. "As your brother, I could forbid you to go. But you and I both know that, even if I did so, you would do whatever you wish regardless. I suppose I have no choice but to accede to your request.

If only things were not as they are, she reflected, they would certainly be different.