Don’t be on your deathbed someday, having squandered your one chance at life, full of regret because you pursued little distractions instead of big d… - Derek Sivers

If the relationship isn’t going to work, it’s better to know early, instead of hiding your true self and putting up a façade for a long time before finding out.

He said, “If they really wanted to do it, they would have done it.

You have different sides to your personality, with conflicting needs.
Instead of ignoring one, make sure you balance them.
Balance time with others and time alone.
Balance your need for stability with your need for surprise.
Balance input and output, consumption and creation, stability and adventure, body and spirit.
Your opposing needs become each other’s remedy.