Caring is not the same as skill, but caring is how skill develops. - Shane Parrish

Self-control is the ability to master your fears, desires, and other emotions.

Reacting without reasoning makes every situation worse. Whether big or small, these unforced errors consume significant time and energy just to get you back to where you were before.

Hanlon’s Razor, when practiced diligently as a counter to confirmation bias, empowers us, and gives us far more realistic and effective options for remedying bad situations. When we assume someone is out to get us, our very natural instinct is to take actions to defend ourselves. It’s harder to take advantage of, or even see, opportunities while in this defensive mode because our priority is saving ourselves — which tends to reduce our vision to dealing with the perceived threat instead of examining the bigger picture.