I dont think that we're meant to understand it all the time. I think that sometimes we just have to have faith. - Nicholas Sparks

Sometimes the same emotion that breaks your heart is the very one that will heal it...

"I'd love to, she finally said,"on one condition."
I steadied myself, hoping it wasn't something too awful.
"Yes?"
"You have to promise that you won't fall in love with me."
I knew she was kidding me by the way she laughed, and I couldn't help but breathe a sigh of relief.
Sometimes, I had to admit, Jamie had a pretty good sense of humor.
I smiled and gave her my word."

...There is a greater purpose to all this. It is your destiny.