I'm against abstinence programs because I really consider "abstinence only" child abuse. - Joycelyn Elders

We've tried ignorance for a thousand years. It's time we try education.

Absolutely. You can do both. I feel that parents should educate their children about their sexuality and teach them the things they want them to know. But so often, what they're taught is what I was taught - to just say no. We have been taught abstinence only. We've been taught nothing about protection from diseases or anything. We've been taught nothing about contraception. And, you know, we say well, if we tell them about it, they'll do it. Well, if you've got the highest rates in the world, that says you're already doing it.

We must stop this love affair with the fetus.