Many women lose all the privileges of a free woman when they get married and what they gain is nothing compared to what they lose. - Nana Darkoa Sekyiamah

I’ve learnt to ask myself every day, Are you happy today? And if the answer is no I make a change.

I feel most free when I am myself, stripped of all pretences, lounging naked on my bed, my boobies freely rolling to wherever they choose to land, my belly relaxed and soft, my thighs apart, my hands wherever they may choose to lie. With no one around me, I am my most free self.

Today I feel like my best sex life is being lived in my imagination. I’m a lot more free in my mind than I am in my body. I dream and fantasise a lot but I don’t necessarily create the kind of experiences that would allow me to enjoy the feelings that I think about.