For love is like a journey in mountainous country, up through the clouds, and down into the shadows to an unknown destination. - Ford Madox Ford

But of course he hates you for being in the army. All the men who aren’t hate all the men that are.

It is, in fact, asking for trouble if you are more altruist than the society that surrounds you.

Now a man listening to gossip about another man whom he knows very well will go pretty far in the way of believing what a beautiful woman will tell him about that other man. Beauty and truth have a way of appearing to be akin; and it is true that no man knows what another man is doing when he is out of sight.