Sooner or later the realization comes that nothing we can think of is going to do it. - Ram Dass

The art of spiritual growth has to do with how quickly you recognize attachments and how quickly you can release them.

You two are together in the stars, but not in this world, in this life.

The thing about perspective is:
something happens.
it means nothing.
we make up a story about what it means based on what we feel.
this story becomes our truth.
this story creates our reality, our world, what is possible and what is not.