The fortune of the man who sits also sits - Philip José Farmer

But he’s sincere. Which doesn’t mean he knows what he’s talking about.

The trouble with you, Peter—one of the troubles—is you worry too much about other people's behavior. And you have too high ideals for them, ideals which you yourself don't try to live up to."
"I know I can't live up to them, so I make a no pretense," Frigate said.
"But it bothers me that others claim to have these ideals and to be living up to them. If I point out that they aren't, they get angry."
The little Moor chuckled. "Naturally. Your criticism threatens their self-image. If that were to be destroyed, they, too, would be destroyed. At least, they think so.

Reader, pray that soon this Iron Age
Will crumble, and Beauty escape the rusting cage.