You learn to live with it. There are moments when it comes back and it floods you. You’re overwhelmed by it and you can’t function then there are mom… - Ngozi Anyanwu

It’s not about making something perfect it’s about letting everyone have ownership of their place in the process.

it’s okay to completely fall apart and be nonfunctional but you won’t die from grief, if you don’t want to. If it’s painful and you can’t function it’s probably the speed you need to be at, in that moment; you’re at the right place.

Don’t be afraid to go through those hard moments to resolve things or be forced to have all of those unresolved issues with people. Be honest, kind and brave with the people you love because you don’t know how long you’re going to have them.