"High agency" means you don’t wait for the perfect instructions before making things better -- but at the same time, if you are receiving perfect instructions, then you shut up and listen. Taking context is often just as important as taking action.

The thing you have to understand about personal growth is it's not all about self-discovery. A huge part of it is self-construction. The best version of yourself doesn't already live within you waiting to be excavated in a flash of insight. You have to build it up incrementally.