Cosplay is actually a complex hobby. You need to have multiple skills in order to pull off a look that you're really good at, such as wig styling, makeup, prop making, tailoring, concept planning and photo editing. You need all these skills in order to execute well, so don't be sad or frustrated during your first few tries if things didn't go well. Take things slowly and enjoy along the way.

Expecting to be able to get rid of the competitive drive, first of all, flies in the face of human nature — and little girls certainly have this drive, as much as little boys do, or at least the little girls I have observed in my immediate family have it.