Tracee Ellis Ross Quotes

I want to be in a relationship with myself as I am. I don't want to be fighting with an image that I put out that I can't keep up with.

I tried being small and feeling things in little ways. It took me a long time to get to know myself, to accept myself, and even on some days to really like and love myself. And then it took me a whole other load of years to have the courage to actually live in the world as that person. And it's been trial and error, chewing on ground glass.

it's actually a real honour to get older. Not everybody has that honour, with everything going on in this country, with all of the violence and the children that don't get to live that long…

I don't live my life for other people.

People don't want to be told that what they're doing might not be the right thing or might not make everybody happy. But I am somebody who – I don't just go along to get along.

I've always been a person who speaks up. I can't help it. Sometimes the practice for me is – perhaps the exercise today is to not speak up.

It's been a hard-earned journey of self-discovery and self-acceptance.

But what I would prefer is that I'm the poster child for living my life on my terms. And that there's a version of that for everyone.

Home for me is about safety and embrace. It's about shedding all the external masks that we have to wear out in the world. Home is really about beauty, safety, history. My friendships are home for me. My family is home for me. It's an energetic connection that creates a sense of safety and groundedness, where I don't have to wear any mask. I can just be myself.

But then when you hit high school you start interacting with the patriarchy.

I didn't see enough examples of different versions of how a woman can find happiness and joy and power and sensuality, sexuality, all of that, without it being through the lens of how I'm seen by a man.

But you know, I've always been excited about getting older. I love getting wiser and having more experience. I mean, don't get me wrong, I have vulnerabilities and discomforts around my age, but trying to pretend or hide the things that I feel insecure or uncomfortable about doesn't make them any less comfortable, you know?