a good deal of unkindness and selfishness on the part of parents towards children is not generally followed by ill consequences to the parents themse… - Samuel Butler

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a good deal of unkindness and selfishness on the part of parents towards children is not generally followed by ill consequences to the parents themselves. They may cast a gloom over their children’s lives for many years without having to suffer anything that will hurt them. I should say, then, that it shows no great moral obliquity on the part of parents if within certain limits they make their children’s lives a burden to them.