You are that which you seek, but you have left your own deepness and are looking elsewhere. - David Deida

Because a man’s priority is his mission, he will always gravitate to a woman whom he feels would most support his mission.

Your mission is your priority. Unless you know your mission and have aligned your life to it, your core will feel empty. Your presence in the world will be weakened, as will your presence with your intimate partner. The next time you notice yourself “giving in” to your woman, postponing your mission and denying your true purpose in order to spend time with her, stop. Tell your woman that you love her, but you cannot deny your heart’s purpose. Tell her that you will spend 30 minutes (or some specific time) with her in absolute attention and total presence, but then you must return to carry on your mission.

Nobody gives you faster feedback about your mediocrity than your woman.