We are not here to learn to play, we are here to play to learn. - Guy Finley

Consciously giving up the last word is a secret prayer because the you that wants the last word isn't really you at all...it's that dark spirit of one-upmanship, that dark spirit of combativeness.

Why do you want the approval of others who don't even approve of themselves?

An unattended mind is the breeding ground of self defeat.