Why do you enjoy finding fault with others? Is there not a better way to feel good? Such - Nisargadatta Maharaj

When the shadow is seen to be only a shadow, you stop following it. You turn around and discover the sun which was there all the time - behind your back!

Leave alone your desires and fears and give your entire attention to the subject, to he who is behind the experience of desire and fear. Ask: who desires? Let each desire bring you back to yourself.

If you have contact with pure consciousness even for a moment, you are liberated.