You aren’t a better person for feeling guilty or bad about yourself, just a sadder one - Jen Sincero

And the day came when the risk to remain tight in a bud was more painful than the risk it took to blossom.

No matter what you say you want, if you’ve got an underlying subconscious belief that it’s going to cause you pain or isn’t available to you, you either A) Won’t let yourself have it, or B) You will let yourself have it, but you’ll be rill fucked up about it. And then you’ll go off and lose it anyway.

Decisions are not up for negotiation.