One can become quite proficient at this amiable patter; the trick is to omit the instructive parts when attending formal dinner parties outside the h… - Judith Martin

One can become quite proficient at this amiable patter; the trick is to omit the instructive parts when attending formal dinner parties outside the house. It would be a mistake for Miss Manners to provide you with a list of no-no’s. It may never have occurred to your children to laugh with a mouthful of soup, for instance, or to discharge unappreciated salad ingredients into the napkin. Here, instead, are a few yes-yes’s: Small

Nothing is as inimical to passion as the slow, sensible weighing of practicalities.

The reason for not announcing a new job until it is time to give proper notice of leaving the old one is always that it had not yet become “definite.