Rape humor is designed to remind women that they are still not quite equal. Just as their bodies and reproductive freedom are open to legislation and… - Roxane Gay

It's hard not to feel humorless, as a woman and a feminist, to recognize misogyny in so many forms, some great and some small, and know you're not imagining things. It's hard to be told to lighten up because if you lighten up any more, you're going to float the fuck away. The problem is not that one of these things is happening; it's that they are all happening, concurrently and constantly.

Nostalgia is powerful. It is natural, human, to long for the past, particularly when we can remember our histories as better than they were.

Because I am not a touchy-feely person, I always feel this light shock, this surprise, really, when my skin comes into contact with another person’s skin. Sometimes that shock is pleasant, like Oh, here is my body in the world. Sometimes, it is not. I never know which it will be.