Every man knows that his highest purpose in life cannot be reduced to any particular relationship. If a man prioritizes his relationship over his hig… - David Deida

Herein lies the delicious torture, the 'flowery combat' of intimacy — the lover who really turns you on deep in your sexual heart will also really frustrate you in more superficial moments. If you have a feminine essence, then your masculine lover's deep confidence and integrity will turn you on, except when bulldozing your feelings and nit-picking the content of everything you say in a moment of conflict. If you have a masculine essence, then your feminine lover's spontaneous laughter and fluid sexual responsiveness will turn you on, except during times of whacko hysteria and unpredictable shutdowns. In moments of deep communion, the masculine and feminine open as a singular gift — two facets of one jewel.

If necessary, a man should live with a hurting heart rather than a closed one.

Bugün ne yap ki, bu gece yatağa girdiğinde, verebileceğin her şeyi vermiş ol, en derin şekilde sevgini sunmuş ol ve verebileceğin en hakiki armağanların hepsini sunmuş ol? Gün be gün bu şekilde yaşamak ölüme hazırlanma yoludur. Günlük eylemlerini bu en derin amacının çağrısıyla birleştirdiğinde pişmanlık duymadan ve onurunla yaşayabilirsin.