Cultivate the art of renunciation. - Thomas Hardy

and yet to every bad, there is a worse

The only exercise that Tess took at this time was after dark; and it was then, when out in the woods, that she seemed least solitary... She had no fear of the shadows; her sole idea seemed to be to shun mankind — or rather that cold accretion called the world, which, so terrible in the mass, is so unformidable, even pitiable, in its units.

Work hard and be poor, do nothing and get more.