My unarticulated logic went like this: if I give my body away, over and over, I can prove to myself that sex is my choice — even though, and this see… - Roxane Gay

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My unarticulated logic went like this: if I give my body away, over and over, I can prove to myself that sex is my choice — even though, and this seems significant now, I always let the men choose me. Until I was nineteen years old, it never occurred to me that I could do the choosing. Not you, not you, not you. Yes, okay. You.