Whatever thoughts you water are the thoughts that will grow. - David Kessler

Pay attention to your thinking. — Louise Hay

Ultimately, meaning comes through finding a way to sustain your love for the person after their death while you're moving forward with your life. That

but they offer sufficient proof that everything can be taken from a man but one thing: the last of the human freedoms — to choose one's attitude in any given set of circumstances, to choose one's own way.