We often think that we want an open road and the ability to choose any direction for ourselves. But sometimes, what we need is a tunnel that can redu… - James Clear

Remove the branches of a thorn bush today and you'll avoid a scrape this year. But next year, you'll face the same problem again.

Remove the root of the bush today, and the entire plant will die.

Are you solving problems at the branch level or the root level?

When in doubt, just say thank you. There is no downside. Are you honestly worried about showing too much gratitude to the people in your life?

Always ask, but never expect.

Always ask for what you want. Many people are happy to help—if the request is direct and specific. In a surprising number of cases, something remarkable is possible if you have the courage to ask.

Never expect people to say yes. Everyone is busy and balancing multiple priorities. Your request is not their responsibility. When you're told no, move on lightly and freely. The world is full of opportunity.