Don't judge a book by its cover - George Eliot

We hand folks over to God's mercy, and show none ourselves.

The yoke a man creates for himself by wrong-doing will breed hate in the kindliest nature; . . .

There is no creature whose inward being is so strong that it is not greatly determined by what lies outside it. A new Theresa will hardly have the opportunity of reforming a conventual life, any more than a new Antigone will spend her heroic piety in daring all for the sake of a brother's burial: the medium in which their ardent deeds took shape is forever gone. But we insignificant people with our daily words and acts are preparing the lives of many Dorotheas, some of which may present a far sadder sacrifice than that of the Dorothea whose story we know.