When I did the audition, I already felt that this role was just sitting right in my skin, I don’t know why. This movie and character were different f… - Elma Postma

Both are about people being promised a new life, a good future, but in the end falling for someone or something that is all about money and power (mentally and otherwise), or being taken advantage of

Only afterwards you realise, ‘Okay, that was happening. I can suddenly be myself again, I feel relieved and free

But looking back at previous relationships when I was much younger and more insecure, one does tend to become more of a someone you think your partner wants you to be – to be accepted, to be loved