Most emotionally mature people can accept that changes and disappointments are a part of life. They accept their feelings and look for alternative wa… - Lindsay C. Gibson

When you’re going through a breakdown, a good question to ask is what is actually breaking down. We usually think it’s our self. But what’s typically happening is that our struggle to deny our emotional truth is breaking down. Emotional distress is a signal that it’s getting harder to remain emotionally unconscious. It means we’re about to discover our true selves underneath all that story business.

People who lacked emotional engagement in childhood, men and women alike, often can’t believe that someone would want to have a relationship with them just because of who they are. They believe that if they want closeness, they must play a role that always puts the other person first.

Emotionally mature people may tell you how they feel about what you did, but they don’t pretend to know you better than you know yourself.