The will to save a life is not the power to stop a death. - David Kessler

When it comes to food, we are, in essence, following an eating script that has been written into the circuits of our brains.

No matter how long you were together, it's not enough time, but the love you shared is not gone. It lives within you, as a part of you. The experience of love that you had can never be destroyed or changed by a new love. That love will exist forever in its own time, in its own way, in your heart. But more love can be available to you if you desire. Your heart can have many loves in its lifetime. A new love can grow out of the same soil without diminishing a past love. You still have a life. It was one you didn't prepare for and you didn't want. But this road is still worth traveling. Your story is still in the making, waiting for you to find it.

Visions, Trips, and Crowded Rooms: Who and What You See Before You Die.