Values are social norms — they're personal, emotional, subjective, and arguable. All of us have values. Even criminals have values. The question you … - Stephen Covey
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Values are social norms — they're personal, emotional, subjective, and arguable. All of us have values. Even criminals have values. The question you must ask yourself is, Are your values based upon principles? In the last analysis, principles are natural laws — they're impersonal, factual, objective and self-evident. Consequences are governed by principles and behavior is governed by values; therefore, value principles!
Stephen R. Covey (October 24, 1932 – July 16, 2012) was an American author of the bestselling book, The Seven Habits of Highly Effective People, as well as other books.
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Remember, it isn't the snake bite that does the serious damage; it's chasing the snake that drives the poison to the heart.
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