Here’s how to live: for others. - Derek Sivers

When talking with people, ask deep open-ended questions — like “What’s your biggest regret?” — that will lead to unexpected stories.
When ordering in a restaurant, ask them to surprise you.
When doing creative work, let the random generator make your artistic decisions, shaking up your usual style.

Relax for the same result

Your whole experience of life is in your mind.
Focus on your internal world, not external world.