This is what it means to have autonomy - you may not control life's circumstances, but getting to be the author of your life means getting to control… - Atul Gawande

You may not control life's circumstances, but getting to be the author of your life means getting to control what you do with them.

There have now been many studies of elite performers — international violinists, chess grand masters, professional ice-skaters, mathematicians, and so forth — and the biggest difference researchers find between them and lesser performers is the cumulative amount of deliberate practice they’ve had. Indeed, the most important talent may be the talent for practice itself.

we usually have only vague indicators to rely upon.

Living is a kind of skill. The calm and wisdom of old age are achieved over time.