Chaos is the penance for leisure. - Amy Tan

Fate is shaped half by expectation, half by inattention.

I, not anyone else can travel that road for you. You must travel if by yourself. It is not far. It is within reach. Perhaps you have been on it since you were born, and did not know. Perhaps it is everywhere — on water and land.

He has always been politely indifferent. But what's the Chinese word that means indifferent because you can't see any differences?