The most important thing in life is to learn how to give out love, and to let it come in. - Mitch Albom

Time,' the Captain said, 'is not what you think.' He sat down next to Eddie. 'Dying? Not the end of everything. We think it is. But what happens on earth is only the beginning... I figure it's like in the Bible, the Adam and Eve deal...Adam's first night on earth? When he lays down to sleep? He thinks it's all over, right? He doesn't know what sleep is. His eyes are closing and he thinks he's leaving this world, right?
Only he isn't. He wakes up the next morning and he has a fresh new world to work with, but he has something else, too. He has his yesterday...That's the way I see it, that's what we're getting here, soldier. That's what heaven is. You get to make sense of your yesterday.'
~The Captain on heaven, pgs 91-92

If you’ve found meaning in your life, you don’t want to go back. You want to go forward. You want to see more, do more.

Hurting ourselves to inflict pain on others is just another cry to be loved.