When you lose a game, the score doesn't transfer to the next contest but your habits certainly will. Circumstances are temporary. Sometimes you're w… - James Clear

"Happiness is simply the absence of desire. When you observe a cue, but do not desire to change your state, you are content with the current situation. Happiness is not about the achievement of pleasure (which is joy or satisfaction), but about the lack of desire. It arrives when you have no urge to feel differently. Happiness is the state you enter when you no longer want to change your state.
However, happiness is fleeting because a new desire always comes along. As Caed Budris says, “Happiness is the space between one desire being fulfilled and a new desire forming." Likewise, suffering is the space between craving a change in state and getting it.

Strangely, life gets harder when you try to make it easy.

• Exercising might be hard, but never moving makes life harder.
• Mastering your craft is hard, but having no skills is harder.
• Uncomfortable conversations are hard, but avoiding every conflict is harder.

Easy has a cost.

The fastest way to improve is to learn from others.

• Read good books
• Talk to people who have done it
• Soak up the lessons of the past

Learn from the experiments history has already run and you can start the race halfway finished.