When you compare losses, someone else’s may seem greater or lesser than your own, but all losses are painful. - Elisabeth Kübler-Ross

There are no mistakes, no coincidences. All events are blessings given to us to learn from.

Simple people with less education, sophistication, social ties, and professional obligations seem in general to have somewhat less difficulty in facing this final crisis than people of affluence who lose a great deal more in terms of material luxuries, comfort, and number of interpersonal relationships. It appears that people who have gone through a life of suffering, hard work, and labor, who have raised their children and been gratified in their work, have shown greater ease in accepting death with peace and dignity compared to those who have been ambitiously controlling their environment, accumulating material goods, and a great number of social relationships but few meaningful interpersonal relationships which would have been available at the end of life.

When I die I'm going to dance first in all the galaxies...I'm gonna play and dance and sing.