They can call me crazy if I fail, all the chance that I need, is one-in-a-million and they can call me brilliant if I succeed. - Ani DiFranco

Some of life's best lessons are learned at the worst times.

And now, having happily carried two children to term, I can also tell you this about pregnancy: At first it is something that happens to you, then it becomes something you do, then, many months after that, it becomes a relationship between you and “someone else.” Taking the position that a two-celled zygote has more liberty and agency, more of a right to become itself than the woman who carries it, that is the real tragedy. The real murder. For man to be unable to acknowledge the full humanity of a woman and instead to project his own ego onto a partially formed fetus hidden in the lining of her most central core being, shows

My life may not be something special
But it's never been lived before.